Nigerian video jockey and television presenter VJ Adams, whose real name is Adams Ibrahim Adebola, recently shared insights on why some girls are single.
He criticized the common notion among girls that God was keeping them away from the wrong people and saving them for the right ones. Instead, he suggested that sometimes God keeps people away from them because they haven’t worked on their characters.
Adams advised single girls to focus on self-improvement and personal development to attract suitable partners, rather than fixating on a specific type of man without working on themselves.
Vj Adams is very much on point on this but it should be for both the lady and the men too
You have spoken well.The problem with most Ladies nowadays is that they are looking for someone that will carry all their problems for them and where the food are already made instead of them to work on themselves in becoming independent.
Moreso,some have chased a lot of guys due to their bad characters and ill mannered attitude.
Yh it’s true ladies nowadays are looking for guys that will carry thier responsibilites
It sounds like VJ Adams might be questioning the idea of waiting for the right person as solely a divine intervention rather than actively engaging in the process of finding a partner. He might be suggesting that relying solely on fate or divine intervention might not be the most effective approach to finding love.
He isn’t questioning it oo bro
He is just stating a clear fact
Sir l dont think it is true
I dont believe this one , are you just saying what your instinct told you
Let it be known that no one is perfect and no relationship is 100% perfect.
Being single is not even a barrier but in relationship with a wrong partner is a whole lots🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨
You have a point there
But even as at that there is no perfect relationship
Some of them are actually hiding behind God not as if they even a dedicated believers of God. What’s keeping some of them is bad character
It is true sha
That is why I use to tell ladies to invest on their selves first any other thing follows after that
Well bro no lie
Some ladies no get character and dem go expect a man stays with em 😂😂
Dem go con Dey say Gods time is the best