Phyna, the winner of Big Brother Naija Season 7, advises women to end relationships that do not progress towards marriage within three years. She shared this counsel on her podcast, Spill With Phyna, drawing from her own experience of being misled by her ex-boyfriend for 12 years with false promises of marriage.
Highlighting the prevalence of men deceiving their partners with romantic gestures and empty promises, Phyna urges women not to tolerate being in relationships without a clear path to marriage. She specifically mentions the situation being common in Edo State, where couples may stay together for years without any intention of getting married.
She said, “If you date a guy, for at most 3 years and he is still not considering marrying you, walk out of the relationship.
“This issue of men wasting women’s time in relationships without the intention of marrying them is predominant in Edo State.
“In Edo State, you will see people who have been together for 10 years with no plan of marriage. I did it for 12 years. The men have no plan of marrying you, but they will be feigning romantic gestures to deceive you.”
“If you date a guy, at most 3 years…”
– Phyna pic.twitter.com/xYGR2ZJXXe
— 🐬 @𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆 (@OneJoblessBoy) March 21, 2024
I support that. I don’t like being in relationships for long yet no way forward
She has a point. You have to define your destination.
Abi now
Men can only endure but ladies,they get pissed off easily and eventually loose interest in the relationship.
Well said my sister.
Guys should take note of this.long time relationship doesn’t change the fact miracle will happen.just face the reality
I totally with her!
Long time relationship without any marriage plans is not a good one
Honestly three years is even long…I think 2 years should be enough for each others to understand theirs elves and start thinking of of marriage
Reality isn’t written out for anyone in a distance relationship
Relationship wey no get define destination is out of it, no because of love dey endure shit.
Hmm
🤔 well she is right though
But most of this stuff always happens due to lack of finances
No be say people wan date for long before dem marry
But circumstances happen
My pov
Well said
I know some people that dated for 6 months and dey re happily married now
Being in 3 years or 4years relationship doesn’t guarantee a happy marriage we should just pray that we should marry bone of our bone and flesh of our flesh